Thank goodness.
So, something amazing happened to me this past weekend. I got an absolutely amazing opportunity to spend Thanksgiving in Tacoma with Laurie and Gel and their whole clan. Let me just take some time to talk about the awesomeness that was involved. Seriously.
Laurie, my hero and the resident genius on my payroll, asked her aunt who works for Alaska/Horizon Airlines if I could use two of her guest passes to fly to Seattle for the holiday. Somehow, it happened. Somehow, it all came together. Step by step I was booking flights, booking hotels, booking long-term parking for my car, and driving to Phoenix to spend Wednesday night there before flying out early Thursday morning.
Wednesday was hectic and crazy, but kind of in a good way. Per a previous arrangement with my boss, Perlinda, I arrived at school at 8:00am instead of my normal 8:30am so I could take an hour long lunch -- Borders was having a pre-Thanksgiving super sale, and I wanted to get seasons 1 & 2 of
Dexter on dvd at a really good price. So I called ahead, found the store where I would try first, and bounced along through my whole work day, the way I always do right before a holiday. I lucked out and got both of them, just as I wanted, plus some other movies for Christmas gifts, then fueled up so I'd have a full gas tank and be ready to leave right at 2:30pm when I got off. I left school and discovered I didn't have my GPS in the car with me, which was my planned travel aide for the trip to Phoenix. Before leaving town, I tore apart my room and my old room at Luna's. Didn't find it, so some last minute MapQuesting got me on my way.
I never expected to run into horrible weather on the way to Phoenix, but there was rain and fog, so I had to crawl along the skinny highway at a turtle's pace. It took me seven hours to make the journey. It was awful, and I was kind of tense -- I always get anxious when I'm going somewhere I'm not familiar with and it's dark and the roads are narrow and there are cars blinding me and rain and fog. I don't think that's totally unreasonable. It would be one thing if the route to Phoenix was all major freeways, but it was only freeway for about half of the journey, then it was narrow, winding highways through the mountains... basically a traffic accident waiting to happen.
But then... all of the sudden, after turning onto AZ-87, the dark landscape completely changed. I could see a light gray glow from the nearby lights of civilization, and in that glow I saw silhouettes of saguaro cactuses everywhere. It was unreal -- like, I've seen pictures of them, but haven't actually ever seen one in purpose. For those of you who aren't familiar with the saguaro, it's the cactus most people think of when they think of a cactus -- tall, with long arms curving up to the sky. It was spectacular, and I could feel that I was getting close.
My hotel in Phoenix was superb. If anyone is going there and needs a hotel, I highly recommend the Sleep Inn near the airport.
Flying standby is terrifying and nervewracking. Even though Laurie assured me that there were plenty of seats left on the flight, something prohibited the airline staff from clearing the standby passengers until something like... fifteen minutes before we were supposed to take off. But I made it on the plane, and was in the air in no time. I used my two and a half hours to pound out an unreal 3,500 words for my NaNoWriMo, and before I knew it, I was at SeaTac, climbing into a car with Laurie and her brother, Brad.
The best part about this little trip? It was a surprise for Gel. We bombed along in the car, stopping off to pick up their friend Catrina, who I'd only heard about, never met (obviously), then zipped off back to their house in Tacoma. There, I entered the world of a zillion cats (Emmy, Tiger, Mojo, Gizmo, Precious, Sebastian, and Angel -- I think that's it!), where Gel was still sleeping. I made myself at home in Laurie's room in the basement, where we stayed and chatted for a few moments until Gel came downstairs and walked in to see me sitting on Laurie's bed.
She was surprised. It was awesome. I got lots of hugs and I'm pretty sure she couldn't believe I was there... but, to be honest, I couldn't believe I was there, either.
Oh man, and then I met the baby. Such a beautiful boy. Little David is hands down the cutest kid on the planet. I was even brave and held him a few times, and fed him! Even though I was scared to. Gosh, how silly is it to be scared of babies? Really silly! Except when you think that you're holding something in your hands that's more precious to someone than any amount of money or any possession. Then it becomes a big deal, and you don't want to break it! It was cool to see Brad and Gel together, and to see the way they work as a couple and as parents. Brad's my age, and he's so good with his son. I can't think of many guys my age who have that level of maturity. But I guess it's a learned thing, isn't it? They've both had two months, almost three, of this parenting gig, and they look like naturals. It's so awesome.
We all laughed, played board games constantly, and helped put together dinner. I don't feel like I contributed much with the food making, and I'm sure they'd argue that I was the guest so I didn't have to, but I still felt kind of bad. But I had so much fun, even though I was tired before dinner even arrived. I absolutely loved being there for Thanksgiving. It was just the right kind of atmosphere. It almost felt like how quasi-grown up people might spend their holiday -- like on
Friends when there are just a group of people, the found family, together to celebrate each other's company.
My two days of travel beforehand had me knackered even before the tryptophan had a chance to kick in. When dinner was done, I crawled downstairs to Laurie's bed to take a nap after giving explicit instructions to be woken up if anything fun was about to happen. A few hours later, I was temporarily roused and asked if I wanted to get up or if I wanted to sleep. I chose sleep, and ended up passing out and not waking up until... morning. I swear, I slept for over fourteen hours. I must've needed it.
My time at the house was mostly spent enjoying the company of these girls I adore so much. I don' think I've ever played so many games of Sorry, Clue, and Life -- and I never got tired of it.
It was just as unreal to leave as it had been to come in the first place. Brad, Gel, Laurie, David, and I all piled into the car and we headed back to the airport. I fed David his bottle in the back seat, and when he was done eating, he fell asleep with his little hand wrapped around my pinky finger. It was a shared moment, certainly -- that kid's successfully wrapped himself around my heart.
I made my standby flight, and pounded out the remainder of my word count on the flight -- I finished my NaNoWriMo by meeting my goal, and ending up with
50,600 words. I'm so incredibly proud of myself. Maybe next year, I'll aim for a completed narrative PLUS the word count goal. After an uneventful, very chill evening in a Super 8, which is officially my favorite motel chain, I've decided, I took a leisurely drive back to Albuquerque from Phoenix, stopping along the way to take pictures of the cactuses. I even took a slight detour out to Saguaro Lake just to take pictures -- turns out the squirrelly MapQuest route was breathtakingly beautiful.
What a fantastic weekend. I'm so thankful for all of it, and so fortunate. I love my friends.
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